Wednesday, 8 February 2023

A touching poem from an old dying man

An old man died in the geriatric ward of a nursing home. He had nothing left of any value except this poem in his belongings.

The nurses who found it were so touched, that they made copies and distributed to every nurse in the hospital.

One of them got it printed in the Christmas editions of magazines around the country and in magazines for Mental Health. 

This old man is now the author of this 'anonymous' poem.

Read it and share it like I have.
_____________________

*Cranky Old Man*

What do you see nurses?
    What do you see?
What are you thinking
   When you're looking at me?

A cranky old man,
    not very wise,
Uncertain of habit
   with faraway eyes?

Who dribbles his food
   and makes no reply.
When you say in a loud voice,
   I do wish you'd try!

Who seems not to notice
    the things that you do
And forever is losing
   A sock or shoe?

Who, resisting or not
    lets you do as you will,
With bathing and feeding
   The long day to fill?

Is that what you're thinking?
  Is that what you see?
Then open your eyes, nurse
   You're not looking at me.

I'll tell you who I am
  As I sit here so still,
As I do at your bidding,
  As I eat at your will.

I'm a small child of Ten
  with a father and mother,
Brothers and sisters 
  who love one another

A young boy of Sixteen
   with wings on his feet
Dreaming that soon now
  a lover he'll meet.

A groom soon at Twenty
  my heart gives a leap.
Remembering, the vows
  That I promised to keep.

At Twenty-Five, now
   I have young of my own.
Who need me to guide 
   And a secure happy home.

A man of Thirty
  My young now grown fast,
Bound to each other
  With ties that should last.

At Forty, my young sons
   have grown and are gone,
But my woman is beside me
  to see I don't mourn.

At Fifty, once more,
  Babies play 'round my knee,
Again, we know children
  My loved one and me.

Dark days are upon me
  My wife is now dead.
I look at the future
  I shudder with dread.

For my young are all rearing
  young of their own.
And I think of the years
  And the love that I've known.

I'm now an old man
  and nature is cruel.
It's jest to make old age
  look like a fool.

The body, it crumbles
  grace and vigour, depart.
There is now a stone
  where I once had a heart.

But inside this old carcass
  A young man still dwells,
And now and again
  my battered heart swells

I remember the joys 
  I remember the pain.
And I'm loving and living
  life over again.

I think of the years, all too few
  gone too fast.
And accept the stark fact
 that nothing can last.

So open your eyes, 
  people open and see.
Not a cranky old man
Look closer 
  see ME!!

_________________________

Remember this poem when you next meet an older person who you might brush aside without looking at the young soul within. We will all, one day, be there, too!

Wednesday, 1 February 2023

Non Violent Communication


Peaceful Communication Skills
(An Online Session by Prasanna Raghunathan)
Training Fee Rs.3999 for 8 Sessions

Benefits:  
1. It is a powerful process for inspiring compassionate connection and action
2. It provides a framework and set of skills to address a wide range of concerns in intimate relationships as well as professional relationships
3. It can help to prevent conflicts as well as to peacefully resolve them
4. It helps to sharpen the awareness of our language so that they can express what really matters to us, and also hear what really matters to others
5. It involves empathic communication whereby we can attune ourselves to both our own and other people's real needs.
6. It provides the clarity and empathic connection needed to find inner good-will and solutions that work for everyone.


Schedule for Feb batch: 

Session 1 0f 8: 4th Feb Saturday 7-8:30 pm
Session 2 of 8: 5th Feb Sunday 7-8:30 pm

Session 3 0f 8: 11th Feb Saturday 7-8:30 pm
Session 4 of 8: 12th Feb Sunday 7-8:30 pm

Session 5 0f 8: 18th Feb Saturday 7-8:30 pm
Session 6 of 8: 19th Feb Sunday 7-8:30 pm

Session 7 0f 8: 25th Feb Saturday 7-8:30 pm
Session 8 of 8: 26th Feb Sunday 7-8:30 pm

Energy exchange/Investment: 

Training fee: 3999/-

Not sure whether it is worth a try?
Try at no cost!
Pay 499/- and attend 2 sessions. If you dont seem to benefit, then take back your money. No conditions. 
If it makes sense, then pay the remaining 3500/-. Sounds fair?
We would like to have a peaceful relationship… 😊

Link for participants

 This is a link for participants to file questions, doubts, clarifications in Google Form on the day of the session. Link to form https://fo...